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One evening I had a somewhat heated argument with my husband (it was about correcting his behavior in the presence of other people, my identity and self-determination).

Lo and behold, the next morning I woke up and felt a sizeable hemorrhoid on my bottom. It wasn't the first time this had happened. But this time I had actually been waiting for confirmation of the Germanic medicine. It was not accompanied by any bleeding or spasms. The pea-sized globule was simply there - and for a long time.

What amazes me is that the physical reaction after the argument was very quick (within 12 hours). However, the hemorrhoid only started to disappear after a good three weeks - even with treatment using special ointments. What about the duration of the conflict and the healing phase? I dealt with the conflict issue for maybe two or three days. Locally, the hemorrhoid was on the right side of my anus (question: is this on the partner side? - I am right-handed after the menopause). Is my classification and interpretation correct? Kind regards

Note from Björn Eybl
Thank you for the interesting report.
The argument with your husband - probably not the first - was a recurrence of a territorial conflict, or more precisely, an identity conflict (... is this the right relationship? ...)
The identity conflict was resolved through the night's rest (vagotonia). The result: the anal mucosa swelled. Larger structures, such as the one shown here, develop as a result of recurring conflicts - cysts and thickenings then form. Once the inflammation has subsided, they become smaller again.

Note from Ingmar Marquardt:
I suspect that the territorial anger/identity issue and thus the SBS of the rectal mucosa (or adjacent tissues) had been active for some time and was just intensified again during the evening confrontation. I would also assume that there was a resolution of some aspects there, so that the conflict-resolved phase had already begun there.
The term “hemorrhoid” is not quite correct here, as this refers to processes of the cavernous body (corpus cavernosum recti), which is located further inside. Conflictively, it is about the SWE “not being able to assert itself” / “not being able to mark its location”.