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My marriage: characterized by economic dependence, less by love, affection and trust. When conflicts arose, my husband regularly threatened to separate. “You'll see how you manage without me!” For years, his threat was: “I'll be gone in the fall.”

I've noticed that when I lie on my back and stroke my stomach, I can feel a noticeable increase on the left side, bigger than on the right.
I had a suspicion, which I had clarified at the gynecologist.
Confirmation: Ovarian cancer on the left and right side.

Cause according to Hamer: Conflict of loss (child, parents, husband, friends, even animals) due to death or departure. My age at the time: 58 years.

The tumor on the left side was already so large (10 x 16 cm) that it was squeezing blood vessels and I had a thrombosis on my left leg. The tumor on the right was slightly smaller.

Myomas were also found in my uterus. That's why I decided to have an operation. Everything was removed, ovaries and uterus.
I was also strongly advised to have the lymph nodes in my groin and the abdominal mesh removed, as these would subsequently be attacked by the cancer.
I refused this and signed the consent form after the pre-op consultation.

It was also explained to me that the removal of the lymph in the groin would mean that the drainage of the legs would no longer be good and that I would subsequently have to take drainage measures to get rid of the water.
I was spared that, the operation went well, I'm not necessarily happy with it because removing only the tumors would have been enough.
But the continuing relationship would probably have led to the same health problem again.

Of course, I gratefully declined “follow-up treatment” in the form of chemo.
The doctor treating me said that “you can't choose it, like in a hotel” - but I could!
Now I hope that the conflict doesn't manifest itself on another level.
But I'm strong and won't let myself be manipulated or beaten down any more!

Note by Björn Eybl:
Thank you for the honest report. Arguments and uncertainty as to whether the partner would stay or not went on for many years.
In addition, there were the painful farewells to loyal four-legged friends (I know the woman as an incredible animal lover).
These conflicts of loss activated the ovaries again and again, resulting in these large growths.
An operation was absolutely necessary. The 5BN knowledge helped the woman to minimize the diagnosis shock so that no secondary conflicts occurred.
Incidentally, fibroids are the body's way of expressing a desire to have children.