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Experience report from the cranio-sacral osteopath Alexandra Kuttin, Feistritz an der Drau, Austria

The mother comes to my practice with Jakob. She tells me that her son can't be alone for a second - he follows her wherever she goes. She can't even leave a room without Jakob jumping up and following her. He is also constantly afraid that he is going to die. He has “always” had these problems, but they are getting worse all the time.

His mother tells me that Jacob had an operation when he was one year old. She is not allowed to see her son for two days. At first I think that this might be the trigger. We do a Healing Code and Cranio-Sacral Osteopathy to see what cell memory is there.

After three weeks, the mother comes to see me alone. It hasn't gotten any better, but rather worse. Jacob is constricting her so much that she is slowly running out of air to breathe. I tell the mother about biological decoding - suddenly a light dawns on her:
She had a brother who was never born. He died in the womb at 8 months. The brother would have been baptized Jacob. Her mother (Jacob's grandmother) fell into a deep depression.
She herself felt left alone for the rest of her life - even today. It was clear to her: “If I ever have a son, he will be called Jacob.”

I did a healing code with her to take the stress out of the cell memory. She should also do TRE (trauma releasing exercises) every day. We made a life candle with Jakob (ritual that he has the same name as his uncle, but he himself is alive). He and his mom also do the pink heart thread technique (he is always connected to mom, even when they don't see each other.
As a result of these measures, Jakob develops extreme neurodermatitis for 6 weeks. The fear of being alone became less and less. After three months, his mother told me that this fear has almost disappeared for both of them - it only comes up very rarely.

Note by Björn Eybl:
Thank you Alexandra for this ingenious case study. Nothing comes from nothing! Every idiosyncrasy has its cause. If you work it out - like the mother and Alexandra - you can change the problem. The neurodermatitis that Jakob developed as a sign of the solution is also interesting.

Note by Ingmar Marquardt:
It would be interesting to know whether the mother was very afraid during the pregnancy (especially in the 8th month) that her son of the same name could also die in the womb (e.g. in the form of a frontal anxiety/powerlessness conflict). And that the mother's SBS could have been transmitted directly to her son.